When I heard that story, I thought it was incredibly promiscuous for a woman to pay for a man. "It's not adultery or an extramarital affair, it's just about making yourself feel good," my neighbor's girlfriend whispered to me several times. So maybe it was driven by curiosity...it was purely out of interest. This surprising and exciting experience...I'd never felt anything like it during sex with my husband before, it was the first time I'd felt pleasure.